The Neuroscience of Gratitude: Unlocking the Power of Appreciation
Bottom Line Up Front: Gratitude isn't just a feel-good practice—it's a strategic neurological tool that enhances executive performance, decision-making quality, and leadership resilience. Leaders who master gratitude as a competitive advantage outperform those trapped in stress-reactive patterns.
Gratitude is a simple practice that delivers profound results.
Imagine for a moment: you're standing outside on a crisp fall morning, coffee in hand, as sunlight filters through the trees. For a moment, you feel a rush of warmth and appreciation for the beauty around you.
This fleeting sense of gratitude does more than brighten your day—it changes your mind.
Gratitude, the act of recognizing and appreciating the positives in life, is more than a feel-good sentiment. Neuroscience shows that gratitude rewires your brain, strengthening emotional resilience, reducing stress, and boosting strategic thinking capacity.
In today's chaotic business environment, strategic gratitude practice can shift executive performance, decision-making quality, and leadership effectiveness.
Take a moment and replay the scene above with gratitude. Fully notice the feeling, anything you see or hear... bathe in the sensory information of that gratitude.
Now, think of a moment when you were resentful about a business situation. Fully notice that feeling across your body, your mind, along with anything you see or hear with it.
Big difference right? That is exactly why gratitude matters to your strategic performance and business results!
Now that you've consciously experienced a small gratitude shift, let's dive into the science behind how gratitude transforms executive thinking—and how you can cultivate it as a competitive advantage.
What Gratitude Does for Executive Performance
Gratitude activates various centers in your mind, shifting the balance of neurotransmitters that directly impact leadership effectiveness and strategic thinking.
Let's use a business example to demonstrate how gratitude can shift executive minds and organizational outcomes.
Think back to COVID times. Specifically, let's focus on the resentment and fear that permeated executive teams. Why wouldn't we be both? We became powerless in many strategic ways, the business unknowns kept coming at us full force. The impacts of those times continue to affect executive performance; in many ways leaders are still triggered into defensive, reactive patterns.
Your Executive Mind Centers
Let's look at your mind when you weren't in gratitude. Most likely the exact opposite—resenting the entire business scenario around you.
Your Amygdala: When Fear Hijacks Strategic Thinking
Resentment, fear and similar negative emotions hijack executive minds. These emotions activate the amygdala, the brain's alarm system, triggering the HPA axis to flood your body with stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. This physiological response prepares you for survival, not for strategic problem-solving or innovative decision-making. It blocks creative thinking and logical analysis, narrowing focus onto negative evidence supporting defensive emotions.
The Strategic Cost: During my 30+ years of business strategy work, including managing European operations through multiple crises, I've seen how amygdala hijacking destroys strategic capacity. For me during COVID, it became an obsession with finding facts, trying to control basic business safety. Yet there wasn't strategic certainty for a long period. Instead, there was a growing pile of fear and terrifying market updates. We all began to look for and expect the next wave of worst-case business scenarios.
The prefrontal cortex, responsible for strategic logic and executive decision-making, takes a backseat as your mind locks onto threats and past business failures. In this state, it's nearly impossible to focus on innovative solutions, foster strategic collaboration, or see pathways forward.
I was always a strategically optimistic person. Even more so now that I understand focus creates business reality. Yet during COVID, I found it almost impossible to get myself into a logical strategic state. My executive mind was hijacked. I was obsessed with business horrors I knew were coming.
The Executive Trap: These emotions create a cognitive trap that destroys strategic thinking. Resentment narrows strategic focus, compelling leaders to relive business injustices while overlooking positive market opportunities. Fear and anxiety amplify potential threats while crowding out alternative strategic perspectives. The more you ruminate on business problems, the more these neural pathways strengthen, leaving executives stuck in negative feedback loops.
I had weeks when all I could do was replay the same business disaster movie over and over in my mind—global economic collapse, unstoppable market forces, with very few known ways to protect strategic position. The worst-case strategic scenarios played repeatedly. I'd work to bring my mind back to positive business possibilities. Then during idle mind time, back the horror reels came.
Now let's look at what happens when gratitude enters executive minds.
Gratitude engages multiple brain areas, reinforcing neural circuits that promote emotional regulation, strategic clarity, and leadership effectiveness.
Medial Prefrontal Cortex (mPFC): Strategic Decision-Making Center
This region, critical for executive decision-making and strategic collaboration, lights up during gratitude practices. The mPFC's activation reflects how gratitude deepens strategic empathy and emotional regulation, allowing leaders to respond to business challenges more calmly and effectively.
I started focusing more attention on strategic gratitude about a year into COVID. I'd always maintained awareness of business positives, yet it was becoming somewhat routine. Now I started spending longer periods focusing my senses on all the strategic advantages I was grateful for: my ranch where I could work safely, the security of working from home, the client relationships that remained strong, the strategic methods that continued producing results. The strategic calm began to return. Not to mention that executive confidence—knowing that breakthrough solutions will emerge. I'd missed that strategic certainty.
Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC): Executive Emotion Processor
Often described as the brain's "emotion processor," the ACC helps regulate emotional states under business pressure. Negative emotions make strategic regulation nearly impossible. Gratitude stimulates this area, enhancing your ability to balance emotions and maintain strategic perspective during crisis.
Before I started focusing intently on strategic gratitudes, I kept returning to replay the business fear stories, even augmenting them with more elaborate disasters. After strategic gratitude practice, I shifted my executive mind and its focus—I was able to pivot from potential business negatives into a positive, strategically hopeful mindset.
Nucleus Accumbens: Strategic Reward System
Gratitude directly activates this part of the brain's reward system. It triggers dopamine release, the neurotransmitter associated with strategic motivation and innovative learning. This explains why expressing strategic gratitude feels so rewarding—it's like giving your executive brain a performance enhancement.
The more strategic gratitude I felt, the more innovative and strategically optimistic I became. Physically I got stronger, my strategic thinking was clearer, and I had business hope again.
Balancing Your Executive Brain Chemistry
Let's review how negative emotions disrupt strategic brain chemistry and business performance.
Resentment, fear, anxiety and other negative states don't just affect emotions—they throw your entire strategic mind-body connection out of balance.
Cognitive Imbalance: Strategic Intelligence Breakdown
When resentment and fear dominate, executive brain resources are diverted from strategic functions to survival responses. The amygdala amplifies emotional reactivity, while the prefrontal cortex struggles to regulate strategic thinking and innovative behaviors. This imbalance creates tunnel vision, making it harder to evaluate strategic options or see beyond immediate business threats.
I am trained to control my strategic mind and its patterns. I use mind methods daily to create business reality, and breakthrough results come consistently. Yet during COVID I had significant issues maintaining strategic control. I kept returning to horrific business scenarios during idle mind time. It was extremely frustrating, which is not a helpful strategic state.
Physical and Strategic Strain: Executive Performance Decline
Resentment and fear take a toll on executive body and strategic capacity. Chronic activation of stress response increases cortisol levels, leading to executive fatigue, decision-making decline, and weakened strategic immunity. Emotionally, these states fuel strategic irritability, business anxiety, and executive isolation.
I was chronically ill before COVID with neural Lyme disease. During and after COVID, my strategic capacity declined dramatically. My fatigue and inflammation reached new levels, I caught every illness including COVID three times, my strategic stamina disappeared and I felt so compromised I was in bed 18 hours daily—and when I was up, all I could think about was when I could rest again.
The longer these patterns persist, the more they reinforce strategic limitations. The mind and body adapt to this heightened state, making negativity feel like the strategic default. This is why business resentment feels so hard to shake—it becomes wired into your executive response system.
This strategic imbalance doesn't have to be permanent. Just as the brain can adapt to business negativity, it can rewire itself toward strategic positivity and gratitude.
Gratitude isn't just about brain regions—it works at a chemical level, boosting neurotransmitters that affect strategic mood and executive stress resilience.
Dopamine Boosts Strategic Motivation: Every time you feel strategic gratitude, your brain releases dopamine, reinforcing positive strategic behaviors and making you feel more motivated toward innovative solutions. This feedback loop encourages you to seek even more opportunities for strategic appreciation.
As mentioned above, the dopamine hit from strategic gratitude was a major shift for me mentally, emotionally and strategically. It's like a warm bath of positive, strategic energy. I became somewhat addicted to this strategic bliss state. I'm grateful for that competitive advantage as well.
Serotonin Elevates Strategic Mood: Gratitude practices increase serotonin production, enhancing feelings of strategic well-being and executive calm. Over time, this helps reduce symptoms of business anxiety and strategic depression.
My serotonin levels had always been deficient. I supplemented it, but it wasn't enough when I was in hyper-stressed strategic states. Gratitude practice helped bring my executive system back into alignment, including serotonin. I found my strategic calm in the business storm as I focused on all the competitive advantages in my strategic position.
Cortisol Reduction for Strategic Stress Relief: Chronic business stress floods the body with cortisol, keeping executives in survival mode. Gratitude helps lower cortisol levels, creating strategic balance and reducing physical symptoms of executive stress.
It may be hard to believe, but strategic gratitude practice reduced my cortisol levels as measured in ongoing testing. That changed my executive stress state, giving me the strategic relief needed to begin healing my strategic capacity.
How Gratitude Shapes Executive Mind Over Time
Gratitude doesn't just offer momentary strategic relief—it creates long-term changes in executive brain function through neuroplasticity.
When you practice strategic gratitude regularly, you strengthen neural pathways associated with strategic positivity and executive resilience. As you consistently practice gratitude over time, this rewiring helps shift your default executive mindset from business negativity to strategic appreciation.
As your strategic mind shifts, so will your business experience and results.
Here's what that strategic shift looks like:
Negative Strategic Thinking Decreases: By focusing on strategic gratitude, you reduce the mind's tendency to dwell on business threats or competitive stressors, which were prioritized by survival mind.
Due to my childhood abuse, I had a program running that said I had to be perfect strategically. If I wasn't perfect, I was at risk of business failure. That created a drive to constantly analyze strategic imperfections and competitive dangers. The business disaster stories my mind created were beyond belief. 3am strategic worry sessions were my norm. Gratitude helped me open to all the strategic advantages around me, shifting focus to competitive strengths and reducing constant replay of potential business failures.
I'm not saying gratitude rewired my strategic mind entirely. What strategic gratitude did was shift my attention to business positives so my mind began playing different, optimistic strategic stories, which allowed me to use key mind methods to rewire my perfectionist strategic patterns.
Strategic Emotional Regulation Improves: Gratitude enhances connections between the mPFC and amygdala, the brain's fear center. This stronger connection dampens strategic overreactions and helps you stay calm under business pressure.
I was rock-solid in dangerous extreme sport situations. Not so much in business blindside scenarios. I had a personality my friends and I call Robobabe. She'd come out swinging to protect me when strategic threats arrived as surprises. FYI, Robobabe was created in childhood when abuse blindsided powerless little me. She came to protect me and still does, now under conscious strategic control. Gratitude helped me begin to soothe the strategic reactions, to create space between business triggers and my responses. Which was the first step to finding a strategic place for Robobabe to exist and thrive. Of course I kept her around. Who doesn't want a strategic protector during hostile takeover negotiations, right?
Your Strategic Outlook Expands: Gratitude shifts your brain out of survival mode, opening you to business creativity, strategic problem-solving, and greater competitive flexibility.
One way I use strategic gratitude is to focus appreciation around whatever business initiative I'm about to launch. I thank myself in advance for the amazing strategic work I'm about to do, about how brilliantly I will execute it, and how positively it will impact business results and client outcomes. I am grateful for strategic success before I ever start. Try it—it changes business outcomes dramatically.
How to Cultivate Strategic Gratitude
Incorporating strategic gratitude into executive life doesn't require major upheaval—it's about small, consistent practices that shift your strategic mind.
Strategic Gratitude Journaling
There's a great book by Sarah Ban Breathnach that got me started on gratitude practice. It's called Simple Abundance. I highly recommend it. I've written a gratitude journal every morning and evening for almost 20 years. When I don't do the work, I don't have my best strategic days. The few times I've stopped, it became obvious that strategic performance declined significantly.
Here's a strategic approach to start:
Every morning and evening, write down ten business things you're grateful for. Think about them and feel them deeply from a strategic perspective.
Focus on specifics of why you're strategically grateful. I write what I'm grateful for and then add a statement about WHY I'm strategically grateful. For example, I'm grateful for my strategic methodology and business results. Why? Because it's my competitive advantage and it creates breakthrough client outcomes that fulfill my strategic purpose.
After I write my ten, I take time to go back and read them, then for each I put myself into the strategic sensations of the why. I create an image of my strategic "why" then detail what I see, feel, hear, even what I smell and taste around that business success. To follow my example above, I visualize my strategic impact and feel the confidence and strategic satisfaction that fills my mind, expanding until it becomes strategically real.
Over time, this daily strategic focus wires your mind to look for competitive advantages in every business situation. It works strategic wonders. It's a joyful strategic experience in the midst of whatever business chaos is happening around me.
Mindful Strategic Appreciation
We're so wired to be in business survival mind, strategically anxious and competitively afraid. As a result, we spend more time focusing on competitive negatives, whether analyzing market threats, imagining worst-case business scenarios, or defaulting to logical analysis to avoid feeling strategic emotions.
Focus on strategic appreciation instead. Shift to business appreciation whenever you catch yourself strategically anxious or out of strategic sorts. It works when you commit and practice the shift for sustained periods. Here are strategic ideas:
Pause during your business day to focus your mind and appreciate strategic advantages—the satisfaction of a successful client outcome, the competitive edge your methodology provides, the strategic relationships that support your market position.
Bring your full sensory attention to each strategic experience, noticing all the details including strategic sight, feeling, sounds, both professionally and emotionally.
I also use this technique when I start feeling negative about business situations. I stop and focus on the strategic positives of whatever the competitive scenario is. I detail how my senses feel around that strategic positive, focus on the business upside. Sometimes I can only be grateful for a small strategic advantage—but that small strategic focus is all we need to shift our executive minds.
Express Strategic Gratitude to Others
I was raised to always say Please and Thank You—which seems to be slipping away in business interactions. We need these strategic acts of gratitude to become our best executive selves. Here are ideas for strategic gratitude with others:
Take time to thank everyone who contributes to your strategic success, whether it's team members, clients, strategic partners, or service providers. I probably thank 100 people a day in business contexts. EVERYONE deserves appreciation for their strategic contribution to your success.
Thank strategic partners, team members, clients, and competitive allies. Research shows that expressing strategic gratitude strengthens business relationships and deepens professional connections, activating the mind's strategic empathy centers.
Every time you thank someone strategically, you're giving their mind a performance boost while strengthening your strategic network. How powerful is that competitive advantage?
Why Strategic Gratitude Matters Now More Than Ever
In a business world full of market anxiety, competitive stress, and strategic uncertainty, gratitude offers a powerful way to stabilize your executive mind and, as a result, your strategic performance. It reorients your brain from competitive scarcity to strategic abundance, from market fear to business fulfillment, and from executive anxiety to strategic confidence.
Strategic gratitude isn't just about feeling good—it's about creating lasting executive and competitive resilience. By understanding the neuroscience behind this simple practice, you can tap into its transformative power to reshape your strategic thinking and business results, one thought at a time.
Your strategic choice: Will you use gratitude as your competitive advantage, or let resentment sabotage your executive potential?
Ready to rewire your strategic mind for breakthrough business performance? Let's discuss how strategic gratitude can transform your executive effectiveness and competitive results. the way you feel, react and how you experience reality.
Take a moment and replay the scene above with gratitude. Fully notice the feeling, anything you see or a song you think of… bathe in the sensory information of that gratitude.
Now, think of a moment when you were resentful. Fully notice that feeling across your body, your mind, along with anything you see or hear along with it.
Big difference right? That is exactly why gratitude matters to your life and reality!
Now that you’ve consciously experienced a small gratitude shift, let’s dive into the science behind how gratitude transforms the mind—and how you can cultivate it.
What Gratitude Does for Your Mind
Gratitude activates various centers in your mind, as it shifts the balance of certain neurotransmitters.
Let’s use another example to demonstrate the way gratitude can and does shift our minds and our worlds.
Think back to Covid times. Specifically, let’s focus on the resentment and fear that permeated so many minds. Why wouldn’t we be both? We became powerless in so many ways, the unknowns just kept coming at us full force. The impacts of those times continue to impact our minds; in many ways we are still triggered into negative emotions and thoughts.
Your Mind Centers
Let’s look at your mind when you weren’t in gratitude. Most likely the exact opposite resenting the whole scenario around you.
Here’s what is happening in our minds.
Your Amygdala: Resentment, fear and similar negative emotions hijack your mind. These emotions activate the amygdala, the brain’s alarm system, triggering the HPA axis to flood your body with stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. This physiological response prepares you for survival, not for solving problems or making rational decisions. It blocks creativity and logical thinking and narrows your focus onto negative evidence supporting your negative emotion.
For me, it was an obsession with having to find the facts, to know the facts, to find some way of taking back control of my basic safety. Yet there wasn’t any safety for a long period of time. Instead, there was a growing pile of fear, horror and just plain terrifying updates. We all began to look for and expect the next wave of worst case updates.
The prefrontal cortex, responsible for logic and decision-making, takes a backseat as your mind locks onto threats and past wrongs. In this state, it’s nearly impossible to focus on solutions, foster collaboration, or see a way forward.
I was always a positive person. Even more so now that I know that my focus is my reality. Yet I found it almost impossible to get myself into a logical positive state. My mind was hijacked. I was obsessed with the horrors that I knew were coming.
These emotions also create a cognitive trap. Resentment narrows your focus, compelling you to relive the injustice and overlook any positive aspects of your situation. Fear and anxiety work similarly, amplifying potential threats while crowding out alternative perspectives. The more you ruminate, the more these neural pathways strengthen, leaving you stuck in a feedback loop of negative expectations as the stories in your mind grow more and more negative.
I had weeks when all I could was replay the same movie over and over again in my mind, the movie of global death, unstoppable, with very few known ways to protect myself. The worst case movies played in my head over and over. I’d work to bring my mind back to positive stories. Then I’d move into idle mind time and back the horror reels came.
Now let’s look at what happens when gratitude enters our minds.
Gratitude engages multiple areas of the mind, reinforcing neural circuits that promote emotional regulation and happiness.
Medial Prefrontal Cortex (mPFC):This region, critical for decision-making and social connection, lights up during gratitude practices. The mPFC’s activation reflects how gratitude deepens empathy and emotional regulation, allowing you to respond to life’s challenges more calmly.
I started focusing more attention on gratitude about a year into Covid. I’d always written a daily gratitude journal, yet it was becoming somewhat of a rote habit. Now I started spending longer periods of time focusing my senses on all of the things I was grateful for: my ranch where I could be outside, my safety in working from home so I didn’t see people, my pups and ponies who were my family. The calm began to return to my life. Not to mention that heart lifting knowing that all will be well. I’d missed that.
Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC): Often described as the brain’s “emotion processor,” the ACC helps regulate emotional states. Negative emotions make regulation nearly impossible. Gratitude stimulates this area, enhancing your ability to balance emotions and maintain perspective.
Before I started focusing intently on all the things I had to be grateful for, I kept returning to replay the fear stories, even augmenting them with more and more horror. After gratitude, I shifted my mind and its focus - I was able to begin to pivot from all the potential negatives into a positive, hopeful mindset.
Nucleus Accumbens: Gratitude directly activates this part of the brain’s reward system. It triggers the release of dopamine, the neurotransmitter associated with pleasure, motivation, and learning. This explains why expressing gratitude can feel so rewarding—it’s like giving your brain a little hit of happiness.
The more gratitude I felt, the happier and more joyful and positive I became. Physically I got stronger, my days were happier and I had hope again.
Balancing Your Brain Chemistry
Now let’s review how negative emotions disrupt your brain chemistry.
Resentment, fear, anxiety and other negative states don’t just affect your emotions—they throw your entire mind-body connection out of balance.
Cognitive Imbalance: When resentment and fear dominate, your brain’s resources are diverted from higher-order functions to survival responses. The amygdala amplifies emotional reactivity, while the prefrontal cortex struggles to regulate impulsive thoughts and behaviors. This imbalance creates tunnel vision, making it harder to weigh options or see beyond immediate threats.
I am trained to be able to control my mind and its wiring. I do mind methods every day to create the reality I want, and it comes to me. Yet during Covid I had so many issues attempting to do just this. I kept returning to the horrific potential scenarios in my idle mind time. It was so frustrating, which is not a helpful emotional state.
Physical and Emotional Strain: Resentment and fear take a toll on the body. Chronic activation of the stress response increases cortisol levels, which can lead to fatigue, digestive issues, and weakened immunity. Emotionally, these states fuel irritability, anxiety, and feelings of isolation.
I was chronically ill before Covid with neural Lyme disease. During and after Covid I got worse and worse. My fatigue and inflammation went to new levels, I caught every cold or bug around including Covid 3 times, my digestion pretty much stopped and I felt so horrific I was in bed 18 hours of the day - and when I was up all I could think about was when I could go back to bed.
The longer these patterns persist, the more they reinforce themselves. The mind and body adapt to this heightened state, making negativity feel like the default. This is why resentment often feels so hard to shake—it becomes wired into your brain’s response system.
This imbalance doesn’t have to be permanent. Just as the brain can adapt to negativity, it can rewire itself toward positivity and gratitude.
Gratitude isn’t just about brain regions—it also works at a chemical level, boosting neurotransmitters that affect mood and stress.
Dopamine Boosts Motivation: Every time you feel gratitude, your brain releases dopamine, reinforcing positive behaviors and making you feel more motivated. This feedback loop encourages you to seek out even more opportunities to be grateful.
As I mentioned above, the dopamine hit from gratitude was a major shift for me mentally, emotionally and physically. It’s like a warm bath of positive, blissful energy. I became somewhat addicted to this bliss state. I’m grateful for that as well.
Serotonin Elevates Mood: Gratitude practices increase serotonin production, a neurotransmitter that enhances feelings of well-being and calm. Over time, this helps reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression.
My serotonin levels had always been in the pits of lack. I supplemented it, but it wasn’t enough when I was in hyper-sensitized states. Gratitude practice helped me bring my body back into alignment, including serotonin. I found my sense of calm in the storm as I focused on all the things in my life that were blessings.
Cortisol Reduction for Stress Relief: Chronic stress floods the body with cortisol, a hormone that keeps you in survival mode. Gratitude helps lower cortisol levels, creating a sense of balance and reducing physical symptoms of stress.
It may be hard to believe, but the mere act of gratitude reduced my cortisol levels as measured in ongoing testing. That changed my physical stress state, giving me the relief I needed to begin to heal my body.
How Gratitude Shapes the Mind Over Time
Gratitude doesn’t just offer momentary relief—it creates long-term changes in the brain through neuroplasticity.
When you practice gratitude regularly, you strengthen your mindware programs and neural pathways associated with positivity and emotional resilience. As you consistently practice gratitude over time, this rewiring helps shift your default mindset from negativity to appreciation.
As your mind shifts, so will your experience of reality.
Here’s what that shift looks like:
Negative Thinking Decreases: By focusing on gratitude, you reduce the mind’s tendency to dwell on threats or stressors, which were prioritized by the survival mind.
Due to my childhood abuse, I had a program running that said I had to be perfect. If I wasn’t perfect, I was at risk of death. That created a drive to constantly look at myself as imperfect and in danger. The stories my mind created of loss and horror were beyond belief. 3am wakeups were my norm. Gratitude helped me to open myself to all of the good things around me, shifting my focus to them and reducing my constant replay of all the potential bad things in my life.
I’m not saying gratitude rewired my mind. What gratitude did do is shift my attention to the positive so that my mind began to play a different, positive set of stories, which allowed me to use key mind methods to rewire my perfection mind.
Emotional Regulation Improves: Gratitude enhances connections between the mPFC and the amygdala, the brain’s fear center. This stronger connection dampens overreactions and helps you stay calm under pressure.
I was a rock when it came to dangerous situations in my extreme sport adrenaline-driven world. Not so much everywhere else. I had a personality my friends and I call Robobabe. She’d come out swinging to protect me when perceived threats arrived as blindsides. FYI, Robobabe was created in my childhood as the abuse blindsided powerless little me. She came to protect me and now, she still does. Now under my conscious control. Gratitude helped me begin to soothe the reactions, to create space between the trigger and my response. Which was the first step to finding a safe place for Robobabe to exist and thrive. Of course I kept her around. Who doesn’t want a protector on a dark night in an airport parking lot, right?
Your Outlook Expands: Gratitude shifts your brain out of survival mode, opening you to creativity, problem-solving, and greater emotional flexibility.
One of the ways I use gratitude is to focus gratitude around whatever I’m about to do in my life. I thank myself in advance for the amazing thing I’m about to do, about how well I will do it and how positively it will impact my world and others. I am grateful for success, before I ever start. Try it - it changes so many outcomes:)
How to Cultivate Gratitude
Incorporating gratitude into daily life doesn’t require major life upheaval—it’s about small, consistent focus that shifts your mind.
Gratitude Journaling
There’s a great book by Sarah Ban Breathnach that got me started on my path down the gratitude lane. It’s called Simple Abundance. I highly recommend it. I’ve written a gratitude journal every morning and evening for almost 20 years now. When I don’t do the work, I don’t have my best days. The few times I’ve stopped, it became obvious that I needed to start again.
Here’s a simple way to start.
Every morning and evening, write down ten things you’re grateful for. Think about them and feel them deeply.
Focus on specifics of why you’re grateful. I write what I’m grateful for and then add a statement about WHY I’m grateful. For example, I’m grateful for my beautiful ranch and home. Why? Because it’s my dream come true and it makes my heart so happy.
After I write my ten, I take the time to go back and read them, then for each I put myself into the sensations of the why. I create an image of my “why” then detail what I see, feel, hear, even what I smell and taste. To follow my example above, I visualize my ranch and home and feel the joy and bliss that fills my heart, expanding and fueling it until it’s so powerful it becomes real.
Over time, this daily focus wires your mind to look for the positive in every situation. It works wonders. It’s a joyful positive experience in the midst of whatever noise is happening around me.
Mindful Appreciation
We’re so wired to be in survival mind, anxious and afraid. As a result, we spend more and more time in the negative, whether it be grousing about the world and others, imagining the worst case. For many who resist feeling their emotions, they’ll revert to analyzing everything logically to avoid feeling what’s really impacting them. That’s another mind behavior our survival mind creates to protect.
Focus on appreciation instead. Shift to appreciation whenever you catch yourself anxious or just out of sorts. It works when you commit and do the shift for a bit of time. Everyone is different so I can’t tell you how much time, but it will work. Here are some ideas.
Pause during your day to focus your mind and appreciate simple pleasures—the taste of a cup of tea, the joy your heart feels when you receive a smile from a stranger, the comfort of a favorite chair and how it stops that ache in your back. .
Bring your full sensory attention to each experience, noticing all the sensory details including sight, feeling, sounds etc., both physically and emotionally.
I also use this technique when I start to feel myself going negative about something. I stop and focus on the positives of whatever the situation is. I detail how my senses feel around that positive, focus on the upside. Sometimes I can only be grateful for a small thing - but that small thing is all we need to focus and shift our minds.
Express Gratitude to Others
I was raised to always say Please and Thank You to others - which seems to be slipping away as a lost art… We need these simple acts of gratitude to become our best selves. Here are some ideas for gratitude with others.
Take time to thank everyone who helps you in any way, whether it’s in a store, online, at a restaurant or simply someone who smiles at you. I probably thank 100 people a day. EVERYONE deserves appreciation for their part in your journey.
Thank everyone; family, friends, associates, and strangers. I walk down the street and smile at everyone. I also try to compliment people every chance I get. I feel better and better and so do the people I thank or compliment. It’s obvious by their facial reactions.
Research shows that expressing gratitude strengthens relationships and deepens social connections, activating the mind’s empathy centers.
Every time you thank someone you are giving their mind a positive boost. How cool is that?
Why Gratitude Matters Now More Than Ever
In a world full of anxiety, stress, and bizarre uncertainty, gratitude offers a powerful way to stabilize your mind and, as a result, your life. It reorients your brain from scarcity to abundance, from fear to fulfillment, and from anxiety to joy.
Gratitude isn’t just about feeling good—it’s about creating lasting mental and emotional resilien
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